Your karmic aspects need healing. Your question is nowhere near as straightforward as it seems, so dig deep and see all sides. The power of the whole is much greater than its component parts. Once you have all the information, you are invincible and evolve rapidly. You are an extremely complex person who is seeking wholeness within your self. Recognizing that you cannot heal anyone else or influence their behavior enhances your own well being.
Affirmation: I am focusing on myself and my own behavior and well being.